“You may not be her first, her last or her only, she loved before and can love again, but if she loves you now, what else matters?
She is not perfect, neither are you, and you two will never be perfect. But if she can make you laugh at least once, it makes you think twice, if she admits to being human and making mistakes, do not let her go and give her the best of you.
She is not going to recite poetry, she is not thinking about you at all times, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you could break, her heart … Do not hurt her, do not change her, and do not expect more than she can give you. Do not analyze. Smile when it makes you happy, scream when it makes you angry and remove it when it is not.
Love with your whole being when you receive love. Because there are no perfect girls, but there will always be a girl who is perfect for you … “
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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So sweet!
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Beautiful
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