False Narratives by Narcissists

Mothers and fathers (and others) who alienate all labour hard in their campaign of denigration. They literally rewrite the past with false narratives to create a current reality based on their delusions, shared with the child. When triggered by conflict (such as a separation or divorce and/or by money worries) they lose control of appropriate boundaries, and their pathological instability is unleashed. Rage, jealousy, paranoia, threats, bribes, lies, depression. A conflict that threatens their fragile ego and upsets their superior self-image (the one who is right/best/in control, the only parent needed etc) will probably result in them rewriting history and in manifesting their delusional alternate reality. A child induced into this disordered pathology trusts their parent is telling them the truth and believes what the aligned/trusted parent says: that the ‘other’ parent has abandoned them or doesn’t love them, and/or the child isn’t safe – false allegations. Nuggets of truth will be added to the stories to make the fiction/lies seem plausible. When a target parent challenges the false narratives, the child is confused. The cognitive dissonance and psychological splitting are ways the child survives this trauma, but also cause them to reject the target parent’s truths. The alienated child, fed false narratives, is being poisoned; spoon-fed feelings of rage, sadness, and confusion. They blame the target parent for these feelings, even though it stems from the false narratives coming from the alienating parent.

Propaganda is very powerful. Just as the media leads people to believe certain narratives/lies to dehumanise others, to make us afraid, and ‘experts’ are brought in to perpetuate an illusion, to weaponise in order to harm others, alienating parents do the same. They are intent on destroying the attachment bonds between the target parent and child. Indoctrinated people don’t know they’re indoctrinated. Dangerous false narratives destroy lives. Are the governing and support systems (mental health, family court) really doing their jobs? Or are they supporting disinformation? The vested interests in the tobacco industry hated it when smoking was called out as not being so healthy as they wanted us to believe, and when smoking was banned in public places. The truth saves lives

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser .. View all posts by GreatCosmicMothersUnited

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