Yes , I have tried to dodge the bullet , on children , but once again , I have experienced inhumane treatment during an especially hard/difficult time , and they have done nothing .. The winner, the champion is the Dad whose treachery continues .
Co owning property , there is business, and I am certain someone else besides him will keep me informed … No change in the way he bends the truth, or how he disrespects me l No accountability for thievery , no remorse .. If anything he’s worse and of course he’s projecting all on me , saying I brought it on myself .
Because our family members are shallow, it would make sense that their well of emotion is also not vast, deep, or all that meaningful. They provoke the easiest emotions in others to abuse such as insecurity, loneliness, or anxiety. The intent is to make us feel more of all of these things.
What they don’t realize, because they are totally blinded by their power to manipulate and control, is that we will simply lose feeling for them. Our toxic family members drain us dry. Over time they become so grotesque to us that we simply cannot feel the same about them anymore.
And for us, it’s over. The door shuts. It does not slam. The door shuts because our denial system can no longer find any hope or reason to stay in the relationship. This is a great place to be, when we can no longer unsee their abuse.
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