Narcissist Flow

In the wake of toxic relationships, it often feels impossible to find healthy dating prospects or even to expect that there are healthy people in the world!

As someone who’s been through the dark night of narcissistic abuse and made ALL the mistakes possible, I can tell you almost exactly how we women show up in relationships if we haven’t done enough healing work.

  • Thinking that men who say they only want “something casual” might eventually change their minds if we “play our cards right”
  • Trying hard to come across as low-maintenance so that you don’t push him away unwittingly
  • Pretending that you’re okay with “go with the flow” when what you really want is a commitment
  • Offering to help with a project he’s working on – when you barely know him
  • Trying to be chill when he mentions p*rn
  • Going along with his lifestyle choices that are out of alignment with your own

And then, after entering into a relationship, becoming exactly who and what he wants so you can keep him.

This is why it’s so important to know who you are and build a strong identity after toxic relationships. Because if you don’t have a strong identity going in, you will go along with things that hurt you and you’ll settle for way less than you deserve.

Before you know it, you’ll realize you’re in a relationship with someone who’s, at the very least, emotionally immature and unavailable or, at worst, a narcissistic abuser.

Never give your power away again.

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Your friend on the journey. Xo

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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