Thank God for the healing of this for me.

Totally out of balance , these incomplete

relationships hold no value . When you

are wed to , and have children with these

folks , and realize their power , money

and connections will do much harm to

you , its walking on broken glass.


Thankfully , past

I saw a post and dont know how to share it here. So I copied what she wrote, it helped me smile today, post by ABBEY ELIZABETH BOONE

One time, I spent 3 hours cooking an extravagant meal for a man only to be told “I don’t really like that. I think I want Wendy’s tonight.”

Tonight, my boyfriend said “thank you for cooking” after I put frozen chicken strips in the oven.

One time, I spent my entire paycheck on a man’s Christmas present and got nothing in return.

Now, my boyfriend surprises me with things randomly, just because.

One time, I had to drive around late at night to “find” the guy I was dating, only to realize my worst fears of where he was came true.

Now, nights are reserved for my boyfriend and I to watch our Netflix shows.

One time, I thought forever was being yelled at daily over the smallest, most unimportant things.

Now I know I’d much rather it be with the man I just spent 10 minutes trying to nail in the head with a cheese-it because he hit me with one when I wasn’t looking. 😅😂

I think we’re conditioned to think we don’t deserve the kind of man we really want.
I think sometimes we don’t KNOW the kind of man we really want because society leads us to believe that we have to “excuse” certain things or that that’s just the way men are.

Don’t ever think you have to put up with it.

If you have a weird feeling about it…
You’re not stuck.
You’re not too picky.
You’re not dramatic.
You’re not just over reacting.

It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates you and who you can appreciate back. (Because that’s important, too!)

Take it from someone who had to learn the hard way more than once. WAIT for what you deserve.

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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