Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Targeted Parents ShortSheeted in Psychology

Beginning the intensity of the journey, was met with professional acceptance of domestic abuse, religion had no time , nor answers , friends were in less than normal marriages , which eventually tanked.

The harsh lesson of my domestic abuse being accepted , allowing the secrets to remain secrets with psychiatrists compliant in support of the masculine.

I had birthed his 3 sons , I could die .

And emotionally , physically, financially, he has achieved what he never did in his life by separating our sons from mother .

It’s no win , but he holds onto his secrets, his money his kids and control for the moment..

The bite back is not retaliation, it is an exhumation of a mom who failed to win against a system so dark, so lost , it has erased far too many families …

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Blessings & Peace ,

Dona Luna ♾🕊

No clinical psychologist will work with your families, you are too dangerous.  We shunt you over to forensic psychology – and they exploit you for your money – they solve nothing.
Consider… if you are so dangerous that no clinical psychologist will work with your families – why do some become these “evaluators” and “reunification therapists” (there is no such thing)?
What would motivate someone to take the risk, certainly its not the satisfaction of solving things – so then why do they come to work with your families?  The money.  It’s easy and sustained income – your back accounts are their house and car payments.
They are ignorant as sin. There are no standards of practice, no knowledge required, just opinions, and it’s pretty much guaranteed money – by court order or by parent need.
Forensic psychology is immensely corrupt, turn the rock over and all sorts of crawly things will scamper for cover.
The licensing boards won’t protect you, however.  They discount your complaints out of hand – figuring you’re just unhappy with the outcome – it’s not the therapist’s or evaluator’s fault.
Yes it is.  But no one believes you… yet.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

Normal Reactions to CV


NORMAL HUMAN RESPONSES: NOT TO BE PATHOLOGIZED
Sarah Mariann Martland

Normal human responses to a global pandemic that do not need to be pathologized or treated as abnormal:

• Food and eating challenges & difficulties

• Resurgence of compulsive or addictive behaviors

• Obsessive or intrusive thoughts, memories or fears

• GeneraliZed fear, anxiety, panic & overwhelm

• Depression, dissociation, shutdown, freeze, hopelessness

• Feelings of abandonment or loneliness or isolation

• Sense of loss of control or powerlessness. Feeling confused

• Anxiety around money, shelter, food, and other survival needs

• Past traumas being triggered, activated or re-experienced

• Health anxiety heightened (about COVID-19 and otherwise)

• Feeling unheard or unseen amidst the flood of stories

• Feeling like existing chronic needs are being ignored

• Thoughts and feelings about death and dying

• New and old grief surfacing

• Feelings of anger, irritation and frustration

• Caring for everyone to own detriment. Compassion fatigue

• Feeling exhausted, fatigued, unmotivated, lethargic

• Hyper-focus, surges of energy, keeping ‘doing’ to distract

• Immune system depleted, other illnesses starting, chronic flares

(list not exhaustive)

AND if you do need support with any of it, that’s okay too.

—by Sarah Mariann Martland

Motherhood

Now that WE have YOUR attention , I would like to speak on behalf of Mothers who choose to stay at home .

Do YOU Feel Like I DID , mothering only to end up induced , and advantaged..

Equality 4ALl.. It was Day 20 before Domestic Abuse was even mentioned in the news.

Women are not 3 class citizens, and let’s just stop with class.. Mothers , caregivers , nurturers , have been underrated, unsupported and increasingly caring for unique children and parents .

It is time to stand up for mothers and children , in this month of awareness of Child Abuse..

Its not necessary and it’s on it’s way out .

There is enough for everybody , and with some effort and union we are getting there .

I feel liberated beyond measure that folks are sensing what it’s like to isolate yourself from a very early age, perhaps Mom was fiery, or the RX , whatever I always found joy in my isolation as a child.. it wasn’t until I became close to menstruation, moving away from Cindy and parents split , that I had deep angst .

Childhood angst was half sister leaving , 2 times for a year , to live with great aunt and uncle ..I certainly grieved, as I did Teddy , my 1st love …he moved 6 weeks after 1st grade …I was so sad..

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Blessings & Peace,

Dona Luna 🥰