Beginning the intensity of the journey, was met with professional acceptance of domestic abuse, religion had no time , nor answers , friends were in less than normal marriages , which eventually tanked.
The harsh lesson of my domestic abuse being accepted , allowing the secrets to remain secrets with psychiatrists compliant in support of the masculine.
I had birthed his 3 sons , I could die .
And emotionally , physically, financially, he has achieved what he never did in his life by separating our sons from mother .
It’s no win , but he holds onto his secrets, his money his kids and control for the moment..
The bite back is not retaliation, it is an exhumation of a mom who failed to win against a system so dark, so lost , it has erased far too many families …
Blessings & Peace ,
Dona Luna ♾🕊
No clinical psychologist will work with your families, you are too dangerous. We shunt you over to forensic psychology – and they exploit you for your money – they solve nothing.
Consider… if you are so dangerous that no clinical psychologist will work with your families – why do some become these “evaluators” and “reunification therapists” (there is no such thing)?
What would motivate someone to take the risk, certainly its not the satisfaction of solving things – so then why do they come to work with your families? The money. It’s easy and sustained income – your back accounts are their house and car payments.
They are ignorant as sin. There are no standards of practice, no knowledge required, just opinions, and it’s pretty much guaranteed money – by court order or by parent need.
Forensic psychology is immensely corrupt, turn the rock over and all sorts of crawly things will scamper for cover.
The licensing boards won’t protect you, however. They discount your complaints out of hand – figuring you’re just unhappy with the outcome – it’s not the therapist’s or evaluator’s fault.
Yes it is. But no one believes you… yet.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857