I would like to honour everyone who is experiencing parental alienation.
You are going through the hardest human experience and yet you have the strength, love and compassion to support your children despite all the mental and emotional trauma you are going through yourself.
This can be a very lonely journey and only those of us that have trodden this path know how painful each step can be.
Be proud of everything that you do that goes unrecognised. You are the unsung heroes of parental alienation, the people that are fighting the guerilla war to protect our children from people who have lost their humanity.
Many of us live under the medical myth that the heart is a pump, an idea borne of an industrialised culture that views the body as a machine.
The heart however is so much more beautiful and fascinating than we ever could have imagined!
“Modern analysis of the heart has shown that in spite of the fact that the most powerful ventricle of the heart can shoot water six feet into the air, the amount of pressure actually needed to force the blood through the entire length of the body’s blood vessels would have to be able to lift a one hundred pound weight one mile high” – Stephen Buhner
So how does the blood move around the labyrinth-like vessels of our body?
It moves of its own accord.
You see, blood flow is not a simple stream like we once thought.
It is in fact composed of two streams, spiralling around each other much like the image of a DNA double helix, at the centre of which is a vacuum.
“Blood flow through living vessels is much more like a tornado than anything else: Such a vacuum is necessary for producing a vortex” – Stephen Buhner
How cool is that?
This spiral dance is not only found in the bloodstream, but also in the blood cell itself!
Blood cell’s in fact spin on their own individual axes of rotation. They are smaller spinning cells in a larger spinning vortex.
If your mind is not blown yet, let’s go back to the heart.
The heart itself has recently been discovered not to be a mass of muscle, but rather a ‘helicoidal myocardial band’ that has spiralled in upon itself, creating its unique shape and its separate chambers.
This is called the Helical Heart, and you can see doctors unravel it by searching ‘Helical Heart’ on Youtube.
Pair this with discoveries that the heart functions as an endocrine gland, has its own nervous system that makes and releases its own neurotransmitters, and emits an electromagnetic field that is far stronger than the brain’s, and we begin to move from the idea that the heart is simply a mechanical pump.
There will always be someone in this life who just doesn’t like you, no matter how hard you try to please them. There will always be something that you say, or do, which causes offence or division. Whether you meant to or not. There will always be someone who finds fault in you, your life or your words. You may never find out why, please don’t waste your precious time trying to.
You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.
Then there will be those who like you on impact. A little fizz of energy that passes between you. Silently, unseen, bonding. Those people will not only like you but they will like you fiercely. They are your people. Whatever spare time you have, spend it on them.
You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but you can be someone’s first sip of a cold drink on a sunny day…
Or a warming hot chocolate when you come in from the rain or the pop of a long awaited champagne cork or a stiff shot of tequila when things go awry
More than ever we need to understand that Love is All there is Love is the key Love is is the only way we can save our humanity!
The harder and heavier the energies get the more we need to connect and share Love! And I mean the real connection! Not the Internet! Is precise because of the Internet that we are feeling more and more disconnected and lonely. I pray every day for souls to wake up to their divinity and realize what’s going on in the world. What is being done to get us disconnected from our light, to make us feel lonely, weak, and easily manipulated. The good news is…We are waking up! More and more of us are seeing it through the veils of illusion. Our consciousness is expanding, and the light is getting stronger on earth. You can notice it because of all the shadows that are being illuminated. All that was hidden is being revealed. Every one of us assigned to incarnate now to somehow assist in this Ascension. This is the dawn of the New Era. It’s always darkest before the dawn. Hang on my dear souls!
The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one, you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again, but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same, nor would you want to.
~ Elizabeth Kubler-Ross & John Kessler Artwork by Toshiyuki Enoki
I’m struggling with the name of this group today. A “Shamanic View of Mental Illness” is that it’s NOT illness. It’s being out of balance, or dysregulated. It’s vulnerability to hostile forces. It’s being traumatised and needing to release the trauma. “Mental Illness” doesn’t really exist in shamanic thought. “Schizophrenia” or other “psychotic” problems would mean that the person is ready for shamanic training.
Now, there may be some culture somewhere that has a shamanic word for “crazy,” but this western label “mental illness,” just doesn’t really fit.
“The first noble truth says that it’s part of being human to feel discomfort. We don’t even have to call it suffering anymore, we don’t even have to call it discomfort. It’s simply coming to know the fieriness of fire, the wildness of wind, the turbulence of water, the upheaval of earth, as well as the warmth of fire, the coolness and smoothness of water, the gentleness of the breezes, and the goodness, solidness, and dependability of earth. Nothing in its essence is one way or the other.
The four elements take on different qualities; they’re like magicians. Sometimes they manifest in one form and sometimes in another. If we feel that that’s a problem, we resist it. The first noble truth recognizes that we also change like the weather, we ebb and flow like the tides, we wax and wane like the moon.”
She’s always had her own way of doing things and living her life. She’s not the usual and ordinary, far from it.. Because that’s what made her happy and brought her fulfillment. Truthfully, most that she met didn’t understand her at all and because of that, alienated her out of fear. They’d rather embrace the usual confines of their comfort zones than step out into the unknown that she represented. She has a beautiful way about her, true to who she is and uncompromising in her character. She stands for what she believes in and follows her heart, almost to a fault sometimes. She’s not afraid to put herself out there and risk her heart to chase her dreams and desires. She’s never going to be the one living for tomorrow and playing it safe… She’s a wild creature unafraid to do the unthinkable, be herself and be free. Maybe she’ll take a trip without a destination. Perhaps she’ll dance outside when it begins to storm. Maybe she’ll go somewhere she’s never been and just see where she ends up.. Experiencing the people, places and adventures she’ll find along the way. She’s free in a way that most will never understand or be.. And she’s more than okay with that. It makes her happy living her best life and being the authentic, loving and fun loving person she is. There’s a lot of great people doing amazing things out there in this life, to be sure.. But once you meet her, you’ll never forget her, for she is more than just a person, a pretty face or interesting character.. She’s a brave and passionate soul that can change your life… If you’re ready to let go of who you are to embrace who you might become. That’s who she will always be- Fiery, unique and free.. Just the way she’s always wanted to be. She’ll never settle for less. |ravenwolf