Mom Rage

Mom rage isn’t because we enjoy being angry. It’s not because we’re “just moody” or “overreacting” to minor inconveniences. It’s something far deeper, a raw, unfiltered emotion that erupts when pushed past the brink.

It’s because we’re tired—bone-deep, soul-weary tired. We’re touched out, our bodies and spirits drained from constant physical demands and unending emotional labor. We’re overstimulated, bombarded by noise, needs, and tasks from dawn until dusk. We’re carrying a mental load no one else truly sees, a silent, invisible inventory of everything that needs remembering and managing.

We’re managing grocery lists while simultaneously cooking dinner. Remembering countless appointments, every birthday, every school event, every tiny detail that keeps a household running. Wiping tears, cleaning messes, answering “Mom? Mom? MOM?” 64 times before noon. And doing it all while trying desperately to regulate our own emotions, because heaven forbid we yell, cry, or shut down in front of others.

Mom rage happens when we’re stretched past our limit, when there’s nothing left in the tank. It happens when nobody asks if we’re okay, when our own needs are invisible, but everyone consistently expects us to hold it all together flawlessly. It’s not a character flaw. It’s a symptom of profound burnout.

So no, we’re not “angry moms.” We’re exhausted women screaming for help in a world that only hears us when we’re silent and smiling, when we neatly package our pain away. This is the unfiltered truth of motherhood

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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