The highest intimacy we can find is neither touch or orgasm, it is comprehension.
There is nothing more intimate than to be understood as well as understanding one another and having our intellectual and imaginative faculties completely aligned and met. The most beautiful thing about a person is never in the what we can see, feel or otherwise sense with our bodies. But it is what we can sense with our minds and hearts.
To be so completely understood in the depth of our being like no other can offer. That is true intimacy. That is the basis for tremendous growth. We have to be able to dive deep together in consciousness for our intimacy to reach incredible heights.
Otherwise we will plateau in our partnerships and not keep rising. This is when one or both partners outsources their thoughts and feelings to a third party in order to have unmet needs met and this is when intimacy fails.
Seek not so much someone who entices the eye, but seek someone who entices the mind.
Who ignites your search for intellectual riches and go in search of someone who shows not only deep compassion, but also deep comprehension.
There is no greater intimacy than that of two people who can unravel mysteries together that nobody else could even comprehend with either of them.
This is when the spiritual heart feels fulfilled. She may be stunning and yes that is lovely,
but her beautiful mind is something I treasure more than a set of gorgeous eyes and a perfect body. A mind able and willing to travel beyond the frontiers of human consciousness as we expand past the firmament, now that is a whole other level of sexy.~
~ Ulf Haukenes
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