Pain doesn’t leave you

The pain doesn’t leave you, my love. There isn’t a day when you wake up and it’s suddenly gone. There’s no magic wand, no miracle cure, you can’t change what has been and gone. But you learn to carry it better. You learn how to hold it in a way that it no longer hurts you, in a way that it no longer weighs you down. You get to a point where it no longer defines you.

And eventually, a day comes when you no longer wish it away. You honour those times that broke you, those scars that you carry. You recognise them as a part of your story, as what made you who you are today . . . and you realise you’re really rather fond of the person you’ve become.

©️ Emily Jane

25th November 2024

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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