Endings could be …

Often, when a woman ends a long-term relationship, the man’s first thoughts are:

She must have found someone else” or “How could she just leave after all these years?”

What many men don’t consider are the countless nights she went to bed feeling worthless because of his disrespect or broken promises to change.

They don’t remember all the times she stood by his side when no one else did, or how she prayed for him to become a better person.

They don’t think about how she always put everyone else’s needs before her own.

They don’t acknowledge how her friends and family urged her to leave, yet she stayed.

No, all that many men can focus on is, “How could she just walk away?”

The truth is, women don’t suddenly wake up one day and decide to leave.

A man’s actions, his words, and the way he makes her feel gradually add up, and eventually, the burden becomes too heavy to bear.

When she stops expressing her frustrations, stops pushing you to understand her perspective, it’s not because she’s given in ~ it’s because she’s planning her way out of the toxic situation.

She didn’t leave to find someone else;

SHE LEFT TO REDISCOVER HERSELF

Stay strong to all the women building the courage to know your worth, 🥀🌷

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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