Reaching out

Please try to keep in mind that the friend who reaches out would love to be reached out to.

The friend who does the inviting would love to be invited.

The friend who listens would love to be listened to.

The friend who helps would love to be helped.

The friend who shows up would love to be shown up for.

The friend who initiates things would love if someone would initiate things with them.

The friend who plans would love to have something planned for them.

The friend who compliments would love to be complimented.

The friend who gives would love to be given to.

The friend who makes others a priority would love to be prioritized.

The friend who appreciates would love to be appreciated.

Everyone has a breaking point. Everyone has a limit. Everyone gets exhausted and grows weary of a friendship that isn’t returned, so make sure you are reciprocating.

Be intentional with where you pour and how you pour.

We act like you can’t lose genuine friendship, but absolutely you can. You can lose anything and anyone you don’t nurture.

Everyone in every healthy relationship needs to feel valued.

Make the effort.

Or don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Amy Weatherly 💫

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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