Seeing things / people as they are

May You Always See People for Exactly Who They Are, Not Who You Fantasize Them to Be.

May clarity and discernment be your guides in relationships, allowing you to navigate the complexities of human connection with wisdom and intuition. May you recognize the beauty of authenticity and resist the temptation to idealize or romanticize others.

Seeing people for who they truly are, flaws and all, is a gift of emotional intelligence and maturity. It allows you to:

Build genuine connections based on mutual understanding

Set realistic expectations and boundaries

Avoid disappointment and heartache

Foster healthy relationships built on trust and respect

Cultivate empathy and compassion for others’ struggles

May you be brave enough to look beyond the facade, to peel back the layers and reveal the true nature of those around you. May you recognize that everyone has their own story, their own struggles, and their own strengths.

In doing so, you’ll discover:

The beauty of imperfection and vulnerability

The value of honest communication and active listening

The importance of embracing differences and diversity

The strength of forgiveness and understanding

The liberation of letting go of unrealistic expectations

Remember, people are complex and multifaceted, full of contradictions and paradoxes. May you approach each relationship with curiosity, empathy, and a willingness to see the truth.

As you navigate the intricate web of human connections, may you remain grounded in reality, yet open to the possibility of growth, transformation, and redemption. May your relationships be built on the foundation of authenticity, mutual respect, and a deep understanding of each other’s humanity.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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