Not in alignment with all these , “ Painful Truths “

1. The average human life is relatively short.

– Expansion: Life is fleeting, and each moment is precious. This truth urges us to cherish our time, focus on what truly matters, and live fully in the present. It’s a reminder to pursue our passions, nurture our relationships, and leave a positive impact on the world.

2. **You only ever live the life you create for yourself.**

– **Expansion:** We are the architects of our destiny. Our choices, actions, and mindset shape our experiences. Taking responsibility for our lives empowers us to create a fulfilling and purposeful existence, rather than being passive recipients of fate.

3. **Being busy does not mean being productive.**

– **Expansion:** Activity does not equate to accomplishment. It’s crucial to prioritize tasks that align with our goals and values, ensuring that our efforts lead to meaningful progress rather than mere busyness.

4. **Some kind of failure always occurs before success.**

– **Expansion:** Failure is an integral part of the journey to success. It offers valuable lessons, builds resilience, and paves the way for innovation. Embracing failure as a stepping stone rather than a setback can propel us towards our goals.

5. **Thinking and doing are two very different things.**

– **Expansion:** Planning and reflection are essential, but action is what brings ideas to life. Bridging the gap between thought and execution requires courage and determination, transforming intentions into tangible outcomes.

6. **You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive.**

– **Expansion:** Forgiveness is a personal journey that frees us from the burden of resentment. It is an act of self-compassion, allowing us to move forward and heal, regardless of whether the offender acknowledges their wrongdoing.

7. **Some people are simply the wrong match for you.**

– **Expansion:** Not all relationships are meant to last. Recognizing incompatible connections allows us to seek and nurture relationships that are supportive, enriching, and aligned with our true selves.

8. **It’s not other people’s job to love you; it’s yours.**

– **Expansion:** Self-love is fundamental to our well-being. By valuing and caring for ourselves, we establish a foundation for healthy relationships and a fulfilling life. External validation is fleeting, but self-acceptance is enduring.

9. **What you own is not who you are.**

– **Expansion:** Material possessions do not define our identity or worth. True value lies in our character, actions, and the impact we have on others. Embracing this perspective helps us lead a life focused on meaningful connections and experiences.

10. **Everything changes, every second.**

– **Expansion:** Change is the only constant in life. Embracing impermanence allows us to adapt, grow, and appreciate the beauty of each moment. It encourages us to be flexible and open to new possibilities.

### Additional Insights

11. **Happiness is a choice, not a result.**

– **Expansion:** True happiness comes from within. It is not dependent on external circumstances but on our attitude and mindset. By choosing to focus on gratitude, positivity, and personal growth, we cultivate lasting joy.

12. **Your thoughts shape your reality.**

– **Expansion:** Our mindset influences our perceptions and experiences. Positive thinking fosters resilience and opportunities, while negative thinking can create obstacles. Cultivating a constructive mindset enhances our overall quality of life.

13. **You can’t change others, only yourself.**

– **Expansion:** Trying to change others often leads to frustration and conflict. By focusing on self-improvement and leading by example, we inspire positive change in those around us.

14. **Time is your most valuable asset.**

– **Expansion:** Unlike material possessions, time cannot be replaced. Prioritizing how we spend our time ensures that we invest in what truly matters, leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

15. **Health is the foundation of a good life.**

– **Expansion:** Physical, mental, and emotional well-being are essential for a happy and productive life. Prioritizing self-care, exercise, nutrition, and mental health practices helps us achieve our full potential.

By embracing these truths and additional insights, we can navigate life with greater clarity, purpose, and compassion, ultimately leading to a richer and more meaningful existence.

What else would you add to it?

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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