You cannot build a relationship with someone who ignores you, your phone calls, or your texts.
And you cannot build a relationship with someone who won’t talk about the future with you, or make plans with you.
And you certainly cannot build a relationship with someone who isn’t willing to communicate and have the necessary conversations.
But it is not your job to try to convince someone to be different.
And it’s not your job to convince someone of your value, and of your worth.
Your only job is to be a protector of your heart, and of your boundaries.
And you need to challenge yourself to be that protector.
And the first step in loving yourself is the boundary of goodbye.
And you will be fine!
There will be someone else, and yes.. you can handle the loneliness of going back out there again.
Anything is better than betraying yourself to be in something that is going nowhere.
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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