Judgement – Sherry Campbell Ph D

It would be wise for people never to judge a person by a chapter in their life they have never walked in. The community of estrangement from family is not a club anyone wants to belong to. It is a community of people who were left with no other choice.

Judgment is easy. It’s lazy. It’s cruel. It lacks sensitivity and insight. This is why critics who have not lived in the experience of coercive family abuse are giving out their “holier than thou” advice. They think they know best. This is not advice you need to take. Estrangement is never encouraged, but it is absolutely supported when there is no other viable option.

The teaching to take is these naysayers have no clue what is going on the heads or lives of those who have chosen to estrange themselves from family. Let them judge and behave like small people as you stay classy, remain composed and quietly move on in the power of your hard earned freedom that the estrangement has gifted you.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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