Blame shifting – Charlie Mc Cready

The truth becomes a casualty in the hands of those who engage in blameshifting. They possess a remarkable ability to selectively narrate, focusing solely on a fraction of the complete story—a distorted version meticulously crafted to cast you/others as the antagonist. It’s never them. In this carefully curated narrative, they conveniently omit crucial details and context, emphasising only those aspects that paint you as entirely to blame.⁠

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To the children, friends, family, legal and mental health professionals, and everyone they want to get on side believing them, they portray themselves as paragons of virtue, courage, protection, and caring, overcoming immense odds. Alternatively, they’re a tragic victim. Whatever version is relayed depends on the audience they are addressing. This deliberate manipulation not only serves to absolve them of any responsibility.⁠

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They employ insidious tactics like triangulation and divide-and-rule strategies to further control the narrative. By involving third parties or pitting people against each other, they perpetuate confusion and discord, making it even more challenging to discern the truth. I’ve even heard one such person admit to me, ‘I have to remember what story I’ve told what person’. ⁠

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In truth, this process of selective storytelling and manipulative tactics distorts reality and undermines genuine understanding and resolution. By blameshifting, creating ‘muddy waters’, and sowing discord, they avoid accountability, perpetuating a cycle of deception and evasion. This is how they hope to survive in this world. It’s a cunning tactic meant to shield them from facing the complexities of reality, leaving you to grapple with the fallout of their distorted version of the truth.⁠

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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