Truth

People living in alignment with truth tell the truth to each other even if it hurts. They access authenticity instead of safety and getting love because they are healing. Your silent judgements about what I’m doing wrong don’t help me. Be angry. You’re already angry. It’s in your judgment. Unprocessed judgment is shadow which is repression. That keeps you safe. If you judge me, you might keep quiet about it. You might not share that judgment with me. You’re holding your anger back. So I can’t change. Whatever I may be doing wrong, there’s nothing I can do about it when you give me nothing but silent judgment. But when you give me overt anger or at least honesty, I can hear that. I might also get triggered by you, but that’s my work to do. I might actually be able to transform here if I can hear you. I might be able to stop whatever I’m doing that’s creating suffering if I can hear you.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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