Baiting is a deliberate and psychologically abusive tactic used by the alienating parent against a ‘target’, rejected parent who is already dealing with the immense pain of losing their child or having their relationship obstructed or damaged, as well as facing the injustice of false narratives and lies spread to others, including family courts. This manipulation involves employing toxic behaviours or language, such as condescending remarks, sarcasm, lies, slander, or criticism, to provoke an emotional reaction from the targeted parent. The aim is to make the targeted parent feel inferior and hurt, feeding into the alienator’s desire for control and power over the situation. By not taking the bait and refusing to engage in the provocations, the targeted parent can avoid falling into the trap set by the alienator. Alienating parents often use baiting to shift blame onto the targeted parent, deflecting responsibility for their actions and maintaining a sense of superiority. Awareness of this tactic and maintaining emotional composure can help the targeted parent protect their well-being and focus on advocating for the truth and the child’s best interests during this horrendous and challenging ordeal.⁠

Charlie McCready