Dating after 40

Marriage was my end of dating casual men; so I thought .

Determined not to casually date , I set my intentions, accepted celibacy as my normal, and began to enjoy my life , doing things I dreamed of .

I did not want to remarry, and that kept me from separation.. I thought our sons deserved their Dad and Mom together ..

I don’t consider marriage a viable choice, but might consider a contract , tailored to what we both need and want to achieve should we wish to not cohabitate.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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