Signs of Patentifcation

Alienated children of narcissistic personality disordered parents are reared to be their parents’ keeper. They owe their parent everything.

They have many non age appropriate responsibilities both emotionally and physically.

They are hurled into adult problems and placed smack dab in the middle of an adult conflict that has nothing to do with them.

They are manipulated by a perceived sense of complete dependency on their “good” parent to choose a side.

They are so terrified of losing the conditional love they have always received from that parent that they comply.

They are purposefully involved in adult issues that they are not equipped to handle.

They are not able to be their authentic, independent selves. They are sole supporters of someone who is supposed to be their support. They are an extension.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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