“A collective lesson I have noticed with us coming into the Age of Aquarius is that sacrificing your unique self in order to please other people is an old Piscean martyr program.
Authenticity will make you feel vital with the life force that comes from living as your true self. Being “nice” to please other people will make you sick and miserable. Gabor Mate says that the cost of stress from living inauthentically could even eventually kill you, as he has noticed that the stress and emotional impact of living an inauthentic life will eventually turn into physical illness.
No relationship that involves you sacrificing yourself in order to please someone else’s projections on who they think you are is worth it. It is complete madness to live in such a way that you are trying to meet everyone else’s ideas on who they “think” you are.
Be prepared to be hated when you step into your authentic self. And be prepared to let those relationships go so that people who WILL love you for who you truly are can find you because that is how you are showing up in the world.