J. “I completely support the sentiment of your statement, but have an issue with the nomenclature. You are not discussing alienation, but you are using that word instead of parental gatekeeping. Parental Gatekeeping is the action of emotionally and psychologically abusing a child as proxy to harm the other parent. In the absence of relief from this abuse, the child executes a naturally occurring defense mechanism using the phenomenon of identification with the aggressor to mediate the neurologically harmful glucocorticoid neurotoxicity of prolonged and elevated levels of stress hormones that is commonly, and I believe incorrectly, called alienation. Alienation cannot be the activities of both the child and the adults around the child.”
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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