A narcissist will never admit that they lied to you to get you to fall in love with them. They will never tell you your whole relationship is based on that lie. They will never tell you the narcissist truth- that they want to control you, and get you into such a state that they can do anything they like, while you will end up as nothing more than a servant. You will cook and clean for the narcissist, and do the shopping and wash their clothes (narcissists don´t do menial) , will never be thanked for that, and your only reward will be nights alone while the narcissist is out with the boys- or with a new supply. You will suspect infidelity, but will be ridiculed and called names, and you will in turn be accused , to deflect the question. You will end up very confused, because your life will be nothing like the one the narcissist promised you during the lovebombing stage, at the very beginning of your relationship. You were promised passion, lifelong devotion, kindness and consideration. Instead you will receive coldness and hostility . On a good day, you will only be ignored- on a bad you will be insulted and made to cry. But the narcissist can´t tell you any of that, because you would leave. Instead, the narcissist will chip away at your self esteem (you will be easier to control) , isolate you from family and friends (so you have nowhere to turn when things go bad) , control the money (so you cannot easily escape) and keep undermining you, and gaslighting you, so that you think this is the way life should be. That is what narcissists can never tell you- that everything they do and say is a lie. Life should not be this way. Your partner should be your best friend, not someone of whom you are wary and uncertain. You deserve all the things you were promised. And they are out there, but you have to escape from the narcissist first, and they do not make it easy- or you would go right away. Do it, escape- and you will find happiness and love. That is what narcissists don´t want you to know.
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