Stop sharing your innermost feelings with someone who’s shown you that your feelings don’t matter to them.
Developing discernment and maintaining your self-trust seems hard to do when you’re in a relationship with an emotional manipulator.
But one thing you can start doing right now is to stop sharing your deepest feelings with them. Don’t do it when they’re acting nice, don’t do it after you’ve been intimate with them.
If they have a pattern of using your feelings against you and doing exactly the things you’ve told them that hurt you, do not keep sharing your vulnerabilities with them.
Manipulators use something called manipulative affection to trick you into thinking they’re turning over a new leaf. But in truth, they’re collecting intel in order to continue hurting you.
You already know you can’t trust them. Don’t lose trust in yourself, too.
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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