Why are mothers more estranged than fathers from their children?

If C. G. Jung can be believed, it would be that the son’s necessary separation from 1st reliance on the mother to the community of men must be supported by a man of significance. Classically, the young man will approach that trusted male and make disparaging comments about the mother, having already picked up that disparaging women is one of the tickets’ to acceptance by the men’s community. But if that’s only as far as the transition goes, the young man will stay stuck in his contempt for his mother – and it will affect his relationship with all women. But if there is a wiser man among the older men who reminds the young man of all the mother did for him and instructs that the young man must love and respect his mother, the separation from the mother as a dependent boy is transformed into an adult male who loves his mother and respects all women.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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