Toxic family members are overwhelming. Whether they neglect you, ignore you, or are constantly up in your business, it’s crazy-making. This is what they want. They want to unbalance you. The more emotionally off balance you are, the more uncomfortable you will be and the more you will want things to change.
They want you to hunt them for an admission of their wrongdoing. They want you to beg them to change. They want to see your emotional carcass in front of them begging them to wake up to the obvious pain they cause. This is power to them. This is the relationship dynamic they crave.
Stop looking for them to be accountable. Stop looking for them to change. Understand how sick this is, that this is what they want. The mindset to hold is that your empowerment comes in starving them of all they crave.
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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