Many nights I lay in bed thinking where I went wrong…so many years of red flags I ignored…but the most pivotal moment that really kicked off the alienation was simply the bad advice I got from a lawyer in a free consult (all I could get at the time)
He made me aware that if I proved my ex husband an unfit parent (and he was) and my ex husband proved me an unfit parent (I had an “unalive” attempt a year prior) I would lose the sole custody of my 8 year old and together he and I would lose custody of the two children we share together. I was simply told- don’t go to the court date. My ex husband was granted the full custody by default. Once you’ve lost custody it’s incredibly hard to get back and now paired with the distrust I have, I just wish I had fought like hell despite the “professional” opinion and never got in this situation.
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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