Once of the most shocking things about our toxic family members are their levels of entitlement. It is hard to process how any person could feel so entitled to have everything go their way, even after they have been flagrantly abusive and manipulative.
They feel entitled to a relationship with us that they have single-handedly destroyed. They do not believe abusing us matters because we are family. Nor do they believe that their abuse should end relationships for them.
There is nothing more bizarre to be on the other side of family members like this. You could explain things to them in a million different ways, and they would still feel entitled to the relationships with us that they destroyed.
Do not try and reason with any family member who shows such gross levels of entitlement. You will not get anywhere. When you don’t engage you neutralize their manipulative powers.
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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