This is so true , attachment, compassion, authenticity, partnership , not of these basic traits exist in the distorted mind of a narcissist.
Relying to my statement of needing eye surgery, “ seek a charity to help.
There is always an exempt clause for the no soul/dark soul of a person who is not connected to Christ Consciousness..
I just let the lies flow, the knowledge that reciprocation is coming very soon, and all wrongs are righted for which there is no exemption.
The problem with the concept of attachment styles is that most people stumble upon them while they’re in the throes of a toxic relationship. Then, they assess themselves as being insecure or anxious and such. They think the problem is their so-called attachment style. They get to work on “fixing themselves.” All to no avail, because the problem isn’t their attachment style. The problem is the toxic relationship they’re in.
In basic terms, attachment styles theory describes toxic relationship dynamics. One person is avoidant, one’s “insecure.” One’s the runner, one’s the chaser.
Sure, targets of abuse could do some healing work on themselves, but the problem isn’t you. The problem is the abuser, the oppressor, the tyrant. The problem is the one who couldn’t give a flip about attachment styles because the last thing they want is to attach themselves to one person. The thought of a committed, reciprocal relationship with one person repels them to their core.
It’s not your so-called attachment style, dear one. You are experiencing attachment trauma because of the person you’re in a relationship with. Safe relationships don’t make you feel that way.
Kim
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