Mom receives reply to her text from adult son

I think about my alienated son daily, but I have been thinking about him a lot latley. He is 28 years old and we have been estranged for 13 years. I have thought about calling him many times lately and finally decided to text message him today.

I am going to a wedding near the city where he lives, and reached out to see if he wanted to meet for coffee. Despite some of the horrible things he said in his text messages, I have a small glimmer of hope because I wasn’t blocked and he responded.

The damage a narcissistic, alienating parent can do to a child is unfathomable. The anger and hatred he holds onto saddens me. I wish I could wrap my arms around him and take it all alway. It doesn’t look like that will happen anytime soon and thankfully for him, I plan to be cremated and won’t be buried.

I know exactly how she feels , over 20 years for me , and I feel I must move on … pray for em but know they consider me dead or want me dead , thinking that’s the best soul union

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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