Monday Mindset
Emotionally abusive family members know exactly what they are doing. They want us to believe, and we desperately want to believe, that they do not. We use denial as a tactic to soothe our pain. Unfortunately, this type of denial only perpetuates our abuse.
We enable our abusers by rationalizing their mistreatment with made up stories about why they are the way they are. The danger of this type of rationalization is it keeps us in a soul-crushing environment. If we continue to entertain their excuses and make up our own excuses for why they abuse us, we cannot recover.
The mindset to hold is that if a person is smart enough to project, gaslight, deflect, deny, and play all of the blame-shifting games, then these same people are also smart enough to know that what they are doing is destroying their victim.
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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