Mom of 3 sons successfully escapes DA partner

on Christmas Day Me , my 3 little boys and doggie were in hotel , left my abuser 2 weeks ago . I have no family around , only his family that he turned against me . I was scared to leave ,it felt like there was no exit for me , every corner I turned I was blocked but THAT day he helped me out , he kicked me out because I refused to be quiet and put up with his shit .  I had some savings , secretly selling the things on Facebook Market through the last year and some other little incomes  like Kids birthday money gifts etc . Anyway was able to stay in hotel for almost 2 weeks  in the meantime apllied for all possible assistance and was looking for apartment . It was really hard to find one because I’m a stay home mom no income to show no employment history etc but I Found it !!! 😃 got the key yesterday . We have only one air mattress  and , no furniture but  we are happy . I feel like everything is falling in to place now  and God is protecting us .It’s incredible how better I’m starting feeling already . The Next week the kids will go to the daycare part time and I will start applying for jobs . It’s going to be really challenging . Been out of work since 2012 . But I won’t give up . No way ! 
He is keeping playing games using the kids , keeping harassing , threatens with the cops 👮‍♀️, his lawyer etc . Now it’s different I have a choice can block him or just turn off my phone . 
And yes I choose to live poor but happy ,  his last words before I left “ I’m zero without him “ I guess we’ll see .   Guys I’m just going to say one more thing it feel so much better on this side . I will keep u posted 😘
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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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