Dad’s ex passes …nightmare of getting 2 children

A fathers ex passed away 2 days ago leaving their 2 young children behind.  They are separated and tactics have been used to eliminate contact in the past.  Dad got a call from the police notifying him of the death, that one of his children was in the crash but is fine and the children are with the decreased’s mother, no details, hes in the dark.  Dad called grandma, she was “busy” and could not talk.   Dad drove overnight 8 hours to get his children.  He requested help from the police and told they could not intervene due to a no contact order against him.  The no contact order was actually against the fellow that lives with the children (yes hes not supposed to be around the kids but lives with them) and police were confusing their persons.  They sent them away and told them cfs was who to contact.  Cfs responds hours later with,” this is a family issue and there is nothing stopping you from getting your kids”.  Well great, dad asks for grandmas location. “Thats not our responsibility” and cfs hangs up.   So 4 visits to the police, 1 call to 911 and a incredibly useless conversation to cfs and dad still does not know where his kids are.  Oh, did I mention there is an enforcement clause in his order and he is named as guardian to his children? 
This is what parents are up against.  This is the system designed to help protect families and children.  2 very young children just went through major trauma and their living parent is not even able to comfort them and is instead being told to take it to court.  😡
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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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