44/50 Million Families Adversely Affected By Abuses Of Family Court

I am not sure where I found this , so I can’t quote

44 million families affected .

So 44 million families have dealt with abuse in family Court. If it was just a simple as constitutional rights being honored I don’t think it would be affecting over 50 million people. 
How many millions of people have to be affected by this before people start understanding like it or not you have to learn a different way to communicate with a narcissist or an abuser. 
if you keep saying they’re never going to change and that’s what you focus on rather than coming up with a solution then you’re right it’s never going to change. as long as you keep telling yourself there’s nothing that can be done you’re exactly right then nothing will be done. 
How many people have effectively fought parental alienation in family Court and won without spending over $50,000? 
How many people are going to keep beating the same dead horse and just keep hoping for it to come back alive? 
if you want your situation to change you have no choice but to educate yourself.  Dr. Craig Childress gives great diagrams that explain things very simply.  Amy J L Baker breaks down the patterns and how to communicate. They help us to understand the problems and solutions. 
* Not personally supporting Amy J Baker .
neither of these to mention anything about litigating in court. They reveal how children are affected by the abusive parenting. 
It is our job as the parents to educate ourself on narcissisticbehaviors, how to communicate with a narcissist not how to communicate with an average person, it is our job to make sure that we put in writing to our attorneys what the problems are in our case and what the solutions are. Millions of people are finally starting to understand that attorneys  are not like other professionals. if a doctor or a mechanic did what an attorney did they wouldn’t have a job. 
Educate your attorney, because apparently an eight-year degree is not enough for adequate representation. Don’t let your attorney bully you they work for you not the other way around. if they want to pretend like they don’t know how to solve this problem or that they don’t experience this problem then make it their problem. 
You first have to do self-care. This is not about arguing that you shouldn’t have to it’s about you do have to if you want your children back. You have to get yourself in therapy and find out different ways of coping with trauma if you ignore it it’s still there it doesn’t go away. Secondly, you have to educate yourself. Third you have to practice it starts with you. You have to reveal and come up with effective resolutions. lastly you have to find a way to enforce Conflict Management training between the two parties if that means you need to teach your own attorney then do it. 
if you do not fight for your children
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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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