WHO WE REALLY ARE – Some holiday thoughts, wishes and HOPE for the year ahead.

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We ARE strong, we ARE centered, and WE are loving people with empathy that got pulled into the dysfunctional chaos of emotional and psychological abuse from of a Narcissist’s dark world and lack of a REAL identity. Through all of this we lost ourselves. We gave up so much of who we are trying to reconcile things, fix the many wrongs we were blamed for, as well as constantly pacifying the Narcissist. We were smothered by this connection with a Narcissist. Unfortunately, we learned the hard way that his/her needs and demands were unending and none of this was about ANY type of normal love, a normal bond, or any type of a relationship beyond the Narcissist’s needs – and it was destructive to all of us at so many levels. We never had a place in the Narcissist’s world beyond what we could give and what they took from…

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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