Life is not a Disney movie . Discern 🧐

Dating and relationships are much different now than they used to be.⁣⁣
Now, we must be discerning and evaluate people before allowing them to be part of our life.⁣⁣
Love at first sight is a thing of the past, thanks to this era of social media and peoples’ attention spans being the same as a goldfish (that’s actually been scientifically proven).⁣⁣
So, what this means for us is that we can no longer go on two or three dates with someone and try to form an instant relationship or plan a future with someone we barely know.⁣⁣
Or try to form a deep friendship with that coworker because we went to lunch with them a couple of times.⁣⁣
We need boundaries and self-protection more than ever. ⁣⁣
Most of the people we meet are not compatible with what we want from our close relationships.⁣⁣
Because we feel connected with someone after a few dates does not, in any way, mean that they feel the same way. ⁣⁣
Because you may be intimate with them does NOT mean they are planning a future with you or intend to be exclusive.⁣⁣
Don’t go all in with someone you’ve seen a couple of times just because of the excitement and butterflies. Life is not a Disney movie…we need to be choosy about who we allow into our sacred space.⁣⁣

Free boundary worksheets here:



⁣#relationshipgoals #relationships #healthylove #boundaries

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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