“Do you love me?” ” asked Alice. “No, I don’t love you!” ” responded the White Rabbit. Alice frown and shook her hands as she would whenever she felt hurt. See ? the White Rabbit replied to her Now you’re going to start wondering what makes you so imperfect and what did you do wrong so I can’t love you even a little. You know, that’s why I can’t love you. You won’t always be loved Alice, there will be days when others will be tired and bored of life, head in the clouds, and hurt you. Because that’s how people are, they somehow end up hurting each other’s feelings, either through indifference, misunderstanding, or conflict with themselves. If you do not love yourself, at least a little, if you do not create an armor of self-love and happiness around your heart, the weak nerves caused by others will become lethal and destroy you.
***The first time I saw you I made a pact with myself: “I will avoid loving you until you learn to love yourself. ” 💜
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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