Indeed , or at least that’s the social projection .
Extremely chummy right from the get go , I
recall meeting his roommate/childhood friend
1st , so it could have been one up man’s ship.
Plus I had pots and pans , could keep house
and he had not done that yet.. my caregiving
my empathy , and having no true reason to
doubt , or to over react to behaviors I had noted
as extremely angry and abusive in brothers
which I did not heal nor comprehend in its
totality until Dad’s exit began in Aug 2011…
The healing has been happening over a long
time .. I had synced with Dad as my main
nurturer , and extra sensitive to his mood , sense
deep and profound pain and shadow that he had
no resources for , and much shame and guilt
I have never known the shame or guilt for his very
open relationships , out of towners , my own sister
and god knows who else.
As he joined in union , then exited our home , he
was delirious with joy, a younger , more attractive
more adversary, partner who would be by his side
as twins , enjoying the increased targeting and abuse
while binding our sons closer and tighter in a web
of lies that’s been unraveling .
Like crumbs he leaves a trail.. Regrettably Reclamation
requires the truth , n light and apparently he’s been
But he does have a new gal ❤️.
This clearing includes them as well, if he chooses to accept this .
Blessings & Peace ,🙏❤️🥰