The Narcissist Always Over Idealizes Each New Partner ๐ŸŽ…๐Ÿผ

Indeed , or at least that’s the social projection .

Extremely chummy right from the get go , I

recall meeting his roommate/childhood friend

1st , so it could have been one up man’s ship.

Plus I had pots and pans , could keep house

and he had not done that yet.. my caregiving

my empathy , and having no true reason to

doubt , or to over react to behaviors I had noted

as extremely angry and abusive in brothers

which I did not heal nor comprehend in its

totality until Dad’s exit began in Aug 2011…

The healing has been happening over a long

time .. I had synced with Dad as my main

nurturer , and extra sensitive to his mood , sense

deep and profound pain and shadow that he had

no resources for , and much shame and guilt

for ..

I have never known the shame or guilt for his very

open relationships , out of towners , my own sister

and god knows who else.

As he joined in union , then exited our home , he

was delirious with joy, a younger , more attractive

more adversary, partner who would be by his side

as twins , enjoying the increased targeting and abuse

while binding our sons closer and tighter in a web

of lies that’s been unraveling .

Like crumbs he leaves a trail.. Regrettably Reclamation

requires the truth , n light and apparently he’s been

inoculated.

But he does have a new gal โค๏ธ.

This clearing includes them as well, if he chooses to accept this .

Blessings & Peace ,๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ๐Ÿฅฐ

ยฉ๏ธ

Doรฑa Luna

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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